Sunday, 12 February 2017

F.R.I.E.N.D

Being at a stage of life where friends play a very important role. The one with whom we share our happiness, sorrow, stupidity, excitement and many more. We make friends via different channels :p . But channels are not that much important instead of bond and feelings we share which makes friendship special. Some times we get closer and comfortable within unexpected least time or it takes years and years but we never reach that level. Every friend and friendship is special and unique in it self.

Example a girl from your work who is more than your friend and a sister, a super senior from your college and his friends who pampers you or a pg friend who never misses a single second of life to make your life more exciting or your flatmate who never says no and with whom you always want to make more and more plans or a girl with whom you can gossip whole day or a boy who will bore you with all his ex-girlfriend's story but you know he is your buddy or a guy who never treat you like a girl and shares brotherhood kinda relation yes it hilarious but he can fuck the world only to see a smile on your face or the one who always mocks at you but never allow others to do the same. Vivid friends with vivid forms.

Isn't Amazing. Yes It is..... friendship is wonderful.

Now I have a question not for you but for me. Is following your friends, calling them every Friday night with the same single question "what is the plan" not because I want them to spend time with me but to make sure that they are not wasting their weekend on beanbags taking sunbath or lying on cozy bed whole day and just killing precious weekend and not following the same monotonous life on weekend also; calling them by evening for a sip of tea at work; listening their concern and sharing mine, discussing future dreams, wishes and many more plannings.Talking and thinking on the same page realizing that we do not have any thing opposite; Syncing of mindset, being in the canopy of comfort zone; farting the right joke at right moment and laughing like hell, feeling that moment is content and peaceful. So many moments so many memories and so many things for which words will not be enough

Is making effort, chasing and following your friends, spending time with them, getting into their shoes, prioritizing them in your life and vice versa is adequate. We know our limits and we know where is should stop. Even though what happens with time that the beautiful friendship fades up or saturates.

Why we have a perception that the person next to me giving me more attention means he/she desires me and vice versa.

Where, when and why my words, attitude and behavior started getting judged. Why cant a girl and a boy can only be friends. Why cant they share the same level of relationship always without getting distracted with the concept of love and desire.

There are so many Why and so many prospective...........